Friday, January 14, 2011

there's good and there's not so much

I've realized that loving someone comes with a lot of good things, but attached are some hardships. Let's examine these.

It's great to have someone that you can always be yourself around, someone that you can always turn to when you need. There's a level of communication and closeness that doesn't happen with just anyone. You know that they are supposed to be in your life and that they bless your life in really specific ways. The element of give and take is so satifying, to have your needs met when you need it, and to have the opportunity to give it back when the other person needs some help. I definitely believe that it's part of Heavenly Father's plan for us to go through this life together. I love loving my loved ones.

But, it's so hard when they are away from you. It's hard when they are having a hard time and there is nothing you can do, it's hard when you just want to get a big hug from them but you are seperated by too many miles. It's hard to mesh two lives together, to compromise, to deal with another person's problems on top of your own.

As hard as it can be, I think I'll keep on loving you, thanks.

Love,
Am

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